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Saturday, November 30, 2019

Democracy, Dietrich and Decadence


We're on the cusp of the last month of the decade, December 2019 mere minutes away... and 2020 waiting in the wings. So, as I get ready to say my last "rabbit, rabbit" of the 2010s, it feels appropriate to pause for a moment and look back on the three weeks that have just dissipated since I celebrated my tenth anniversary of arriving in Hong Kong, because so much has happened since then.


First up was our company's annual "Christmas dinner." I put that in quotes because this year, we did it on the fourteenth of November—not anywhere near Christmas—and it took place at two in the afternoon—so it was more of a lunch. But my colleague Kevin, probably my best friend in the office, was heading back to the States the following week, so if we wanted to include him in the festivities, we'd have to accelerate the schedule. And with the budget we were given, it seemed we'd get more bang for our proverbial buck by transposing the normally nocturnal gathering to a daytime one. Thus our "Christmas dinner" became a mid-November lunch, which started when our traditional office shenanigans (champagne, canapes, Christmas tunes and Secret Santa) commenced well before noon.


But it was one for the record books.

After lengthy internal debate, we settled on Jimmy's Kitchen as our restaurant of choice, and, in hindsight, I can't believe we ever seriously considered other venues. Jimmy's is the kind of place you go if you're yearning for tradition, the kind of place where you can indulge in signature dishes that have all but vanished from the menus of the trendy restaurants that burn brightly for but a brief moment and usually fold shortly thereafter.


But Jimmy's has been around since 1928, and I don't think it's going away any time soon. And it proved just why it has such staying power during that lunch. Start to finish—err, oysters to baked Alaska—it was a repast to remember. From the top-notch service to the divine specialties, every element was pitch-perfect. I'll be dreaming about my steak Diane for months. And I hope I'm back at Jimmy's again soon.


One November event I always enjoy is the release of the Beaujolais nouveau, the first wine made from 2019 grapes that is available for consumption. Rarely exceptional but always quaffable, the Beaujolais nouveau is, at the very least, a great excuse for a party. It's a fun wine, and one that compels many a French restaurant to throw a celebration, often with scrumptious cheese and charcuterie to complement the ubiquitous drink. And so, I'm always down to indulge!


This year, Hong Kong's French (and French-loving) community gathered at Cafe Claudel in Tai Kwun for the occasion. But when the two friends who were going to join me bailed at the last minute, I was faced with a dilemma. I had been to an amazingly boozy broker event in Causeway Bay the evening before, and a part of me wondered whether I'd be better served skipping out. Luckily, I decided to turn up alone, and I was delighted to bump into multiple friends—and make new ones—as we all chatted, chomped and cheers-ed the night away in the classy venue of the old parade ground of the restored former police headquarters.


But perhaps the most noteworthy November event was last Sunday, when I celebrated my thirty-third birthday in the most Paul-esque manner yet. As you all know, I became a permanent resident of Hong Kong last year, and one of the duties and privileges that accompanies this status is the ability to vote in Hong Kong elections. 

Well, as fate would have it, the first election to actually take place since that milestone happened to fall on my recent birthday—and you can bet I took full advantage by casting my ballot for Happy Valley's next district counsellor, the only true representation of direct democracy that exists in my adopted home!

My polling place is so close that I can actually see it from my living room window. And the lines weren't too bad when I rocked up at around 2pm to make my voice heard. I tied Fredric outside while I took the elevator to the sixth floor. And less than twenty minutes later, I was back out in the sunshine, feeling an enormous internal sense of satisfaction that I only feel when I waltz out of a voting booth. Of course, I celebrated with two cheeky beers at Happy Alley, where the candidate I had just endorsed happened to stroll by during my interlude. I gave her my best Jersey first pump. 

Civic duty duly completed, I crossed the harbor by Star Ferry to Tsim Sha Tsui to attend a late afternoon movie screening at the new K11 Musea of Shanghai Express, the 1932 classic directed by Josef von Sternberg and starring the legendary Marlene Dietrich at her most alluring. It's part of a larger festival called The Elusive Enchantment, showcasing all seven of their joint efforts, including Morocco (1930), which I saw the day before at the same venue, and Blonde Venus (also 1932), which I caught earlier tonight at the Arts Centre in Wan Chai, both solo.


But, since Shanghai Express was being shown on my birthday itself, it seemed like a good occasion to guilt some others into joining me. I wasn't sure how appealing the idea would sound to them, venturing to Kowloon during increasingly uncertain times, to sequester ourselves inside a darkened cinema on a gloriously sunny afternoon. In fact, the sun was setting as I entered the cinema, and even I couldn't help but pause for a few moments to admire the stunning vista.


Even so, in the end, six friends came along for the adventure, as Shanghai Lily and her cohorts make the perilous journey from Peking to Shanghai, while feuding warlords use the glamorous expats as pawns in their dangerous games. 

And afterwards, we made the short, four-minute trek from the cinema to the Peninsula for dinner, where I'd booked a table for twelve at Chesa, its signature Swiss restaurant. Opened all the way back in the 1960s to promote a newly-established air link between Hong Kong and Zurich—and only intended as a temporary addition to the hotel's eateries—Chesa has proved so endearingly popular that it's still here over fifty years later!


We had a gluttonous assortment of fondues, cured meats, escargot, potatoes and creamed spinach, all consumed in a candlelit alpine dining room that really transported me straight back to Switzerland, complemented by deliciously crisp Swiss fendant—a white wine I discovered on my summer visit to the country.


Completing the meal was a chocolate, ice cream-filled miniature of a typical Swiss chalet, with "Happy Birthday Paul" engraved in edible fashion on a square of white chocolate. We also shared chocolate mousse and meringue, plus a round of delicious complimentary petits fours discreetly dropped on the table as we polished off the last spoonfuls of our dessert trio.


The Star Ferry took us back to Central, where my friends Katie and James treated me to further drinks at Shady Acres, a popular watering hole up on Peel Street. And even after Katie retired, James kept me company until the wee small hours of the morning, a fitting end to the day indeed.


Then, of course, came Thanksgiving, celebrated on my rooftop once again, the ninth year in a row for me! With about fifteen friends along for the ride (representing all six inhabited continents!), you better believe it was a stellar evening, with the best turkey yet, courtesy of O'Bird, a wonderful French rotisserie a few minutes' walk from my apartment!


I actually got two Thanksgivings this year. My compatriot Christina always hosts her own version of the feast on the Saturday before the actual holiday, so as to allow for ample time to lovingly create dish after decadent (and traditional) dish. Whereas my party is more of a casual potluck, with each member of the international crowd bringing along a contribution of his or her own choosing, Christina takes care of everything herself for a formal sit-down dinner: turkey, cranberry sauce, gravy, stuffing, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, green beans with fried onions and multiple pumpkin pies covered in whipped cream. Understandably, she needs the weekend to properly prepare.

So, after that screening of Morocco in TST, I crossed the harbor back to Hong Kong Island and made my way to Christina and her husband Clement's apartment in Kennedy Town. And, boy, was I in for a treat.


By the time midnight (and, thus, technically, my birthday) rolled around, we headed out into Lan Kwai Fong, meeting up with Myles and Chun, and kept the party going until the early morning. It was literally 7:15am when I arrived via tram back in Happy Valley. What an introduction to thirty-three!

Myles—unsure if he'd actually get to celebrate my birthday with me due to other commitments—had decided to treat me to a spicy lunch at one of my favorite Sichuan restaurants on the Friday leading into my big weekend. Up at Monogamous Chinese, hidden under the Central-Mid-Levels Escalator,  we stuffed ourselves on fresh chili spring rolls, dan dan noodles, fried shredded beef and spicy dumplings. So it felt like a double bonus to get to see him again in Lan Kwai after the clock had tolled twelve.


I'm really looking forward to decorating the apartment for Christmas in the next day or so, as the holiday season kicks into high gear. Hopefully this decade is about to go out on a high note, and I'll be sure to keep you updated on its final moments! 

Until next time!

Sunday, November 10, 2019

10 Years...200 Posts


I can hardly fathom it, but yesterday marked a full decade of life in the Pearl of the Orient for yours truly. And you better believe I celebrated the occasion in true Paul style! In fact, I followed the precedent I set for my five year anniversary, hosting a brunch for some of my best friends at Hay Market at Sha Tin Racetrack. And what a day it was!

Thanks, guys, for coming out to celebrate with me!

I'm fresh off yet another visit to my firm's Bangkok office. And normally, I'd have extended it to include a free weekend in the Big Mango. But, as great as this mini-trip was, there was no way I wasn't heading back to Hong Kong to commemorate the big day!

Always a pleasure to go back to Bangkok

Still, I made the most of those three days. From breakfast at the Mandarin Oriental and dinner at the Blue Elephant, from great lunches with office friends to my favorite mango sticky rice... If it seems like my Bangkok interludes mostly revolve around food, then I guess I'm doing a fairly accurate job of summarizing the best parts of the trip. 

Breakfast at the Mandarin Oriental

But the biggest highlight of all just might have been the venom extraction at the Snake Farm at the Queen Saovabha Memorial Institute, part of the Thai Red Cross Society. Only conducted on weekdays, the demonstration is something I've been keen to see since my first Saturday visit to the Snake Farm back in 2016. So I made a point to return during the week this time to finally witness the intriguing spectacle. 

Queen Saovabha Memorial Institute 

I snagged the best seat in the house, and stared in rapt amazement as a team of four—an expert announcer and three fearless handlers—extracted venom from five poisonous kraits, from behind a glass window in an auditorium that conjures up images of an old operating theater. 

At long last, I got to witness the venom extraction demonstration!

Over the course of about twenty minutes, snake after deadly snake sank its fangs through paraffin wax, its venom dripping down the sides of a glass funnel, ultimately collecting in a small cup slightly larger than a shot glass. Scientists, we were told, then use this to create anti-venom, which is sent all over the country and can prove vital in saving the lives of those bit by such snakes in the wild. 

The venom of five kraits

I really hope that my next visit to Bangkok is equally as sweet while not quite as short as this trip had to be. But not long after the extraction, I was in a taxi to Suvarnabhumi Airport to head home to Hong Kong, just on the cusp of my milestone anniversary a few days later.

Ten years is truly a long time, and, in many ways, it's tough to wrap my mind around it. I was twenty-two that day I stepped off the plane at Hong Kong International Airport back in 2009. I had a mere five months of post-college life under my belt. Now I am thirty-two, with thirty-three coming in a matter of weeks.  And I've had a full ten years of work experience. But while I know I've grown and changed in many ways in the interim, there's still a big part of me that feels pretty much the same as I did on day one. 

Yes, as I've observed often on the pages of this blog, my choice to move halfway around the world and build a new life for myself in Asia easily ranks up there with my best decisions. From all the international travel I've gotten to do, to the innumerable and eclectic collection of friends I've assembled from every corner of the globe, to the incredibly fulfilling professional opportunities that have come my way, I owe pretty much everything that's happened in the past ten years to Hong Kong. 

So, to mark the occasion, I decided long ago that I wanted to do something extravagant. Come on, I've celebrated every anniversary from one to nine in some manner, so there was no way I wasn't taking this true watershed moment to the next level.

Beautiful (but relatively empty) day at Sha Tin

I was absolutely elated when I received my new season's racing calendar back on 1 September and realized that one of the few Saturday race meetings of the young season happened to coincide with the anniversary. As soon as the date was opened for booking, I snagged two of the best tables at Hay Market and slowly filled in the guest list, ultimately having a nice group of ten people to celebrate ten years!

Hay Market

We all gathered yesterday: Kevin, Hana, Julien, Jay, Dave, Ana, Liz, Omar, Sarah and myself. Mix in the free flow bubbles and all the good food, and I'm pretty sure you can guess how much fun it was. It was probably the thinnest crowd I've ever seen at Sha Tin, but inside Hay Market, the atmosphere was electric. And early on in the meal, I decided that, no matter his odds, I'd be placing a ten dollar bet on the tenth horse in the tenth race. Ten. Ten. Ten. As fate would have it, he even went off at ten to one, further strengthening my convictions. Ten. Ten. Ten. Ten.

Ten, ten, ten!

As post time drew near and we all made our way to the small terrace overlooking the track, I just had a feeling Lakeshore Eagle was going to deliver the goods. When the bell rang and the Thoroughbreds began circling the track, he took his position in the middle of the fourteen horse field, slowly edging his way forward as the race progressed. Sure enough, as they rounded the last turn, he went neck-and-neck against another horse and just managed to squeak out a victory. It was one of the most exciting races I've ever witnessed, and I was sure screaming my head off as they thundered across the finish line! I'll never forget it!

The payout!

Post-racing, we took the party back to Wan Chai on Hong Kong Island, where some of my friends who couldn't join us at the track even showed up! And the night just faded in a hazy blur of great people and good times. I couldn't have asked for a better anniversary!


I guess my blogging frequency has remained relatively constant over the past decade, because I've also realized that my tally now sits at an even two hundred, similar to my five year anniversary post marking my one hundredth entry! If you had told me back in 2009 that I'd still be faithfully uploading photos and stories from my life a decade in the future, I'd have probably called you crazy. But, as it happens, I haven't missed a month since December 2009! And I love having this log of my adventures to look back on.


And it wouldn't be an anniversary post without a description of my Halloween antics, which have featured in just about every one of them. Well, with all that's been happening on the streets of Hong Kong of late, plus the loving attention I put into embellishing my apartment with ghoulish enhancements each October and my pride in showing them off, it seemed fitting to invite friends over here for the big day.

Happy Halloween!

It was a glorious night on the rooftop, made complete by Calvados and salted caramel mini-cupcakes from my friend Illiana, who creates alcohol-infused delicacies for all occasions. Her repertoire includes bite-sized gin-and-tonic, strawberry daiquiri, and whiskey-and-salted-caramel varieties. But in the planning for this party, I proposed a riff on the autumn-appropriate caramel apple. Let's just say, she took my idea and ran with it. These little puppies were absolutely sensational—full of the flavors of the fall—and packed a little punch, to boot! Mix in a plethora of witch hats, creepy masks and ample wine, and you can be we had ourselves a merry little Halloween.

Calvados and salted caramel mini-cupcakes!

So, the tenth anniversary of my arrival in Hong Kong has come and gone. It was a day that I long anticipated and a day that will long linger in my memory, just like the one that is now so far in the past. As I posted on Facebook after the last race on Saturday, "much has changed in my life, in this city and in our world since that fateful day in 2009, but what hasn't changed is friendship's ability to add so much value to all life's adventures, big and small! Thanks, guys, for coming out to celebrate with me!"